about me

caley tansey (they/she)


I am just a gal in her young 20’s trying to figure out why my parentals thought it was a good idea to have a child.

Never one to shy away when it comes to nuanced conversations about the world and the people living in it.

Currently I am a nanny and a swim coach debating what to do with my chemistry degree- love hate relationship with that one.

Couple things you should know…

I am diagnosed ASD and OCD and will have many posts related to these topics and encourage honest conversations about your own personal experiences. My site is always a safe place, and I will heavily monitor any inappropriate activity.

Proudly queer; not sure if I ever will actually be able to define my sexuality and gender but you are welcome to come figure it out with me lol. I like to live in the beautiful fluidity of non-conformity.

BLM, LGBTQIA+, Trans Rights, Feminist, Environmentalist, ACAB

What will you find here?

Truthfully there is no real theme here other than a place to document my many, many, many thoughts. I like to paint, create, travel, eat new foods, read, coffee, music, human connection, spirituality, astrology, and so much more.

This is just a place for me to have honest conversations with myself.

If any of those seemed to spark interest, stay awhile 🙂